Parenting Highly Sensitive Children

Sensitive + Intuitive + Introverted + Anxious

 

Is your child Highly Sensitive? Here are 32 attributes to consider, they may have one to two that are extreme or several to many.

Highly Sensitive Children tend to:

  • Feel like they’re different than others.

  • Feel deeply and tend to be more emotionally responsive.

  • Prefer to exercise alone.

  • Struggle to make decisions (weighing all the options).

  • Pay attention to subtlety and small details in general.

  • Be highly conscientious which could result in them being highly well mannered.

  • Be prone to having anxiety or depression especially if they've had previous bad experiences.

  • Have difficulty listening to or watching stories about violence or somebody getting hurt.

  • Work well in certain team environments, however they like to work alone.

  • Startle easily and don’t enjoy surprising situations.

  • Be sensitive to and aware of their clothing textures, scratchy seams, and are more aware of pain.

  • Be sensitive to being touched.

  • Have a hard time going to sleep after an exciting, stressful or busy day.

  • Not do well with big changes.

  • Notice subtleties (something that’s been moved, a change in a person’s appearance, etc.)

  • Consider if it is safe before climbing high.

  • Perform best when strangers aren’t present.

  • Feel things deeply.

  • Prefer to have deep discussions than make small talk.

  • Notice distress in others.

  • Not be able to focus in noisy places or may be bothered by them.

 
 
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  • Be a deep thinker who needs time to process.

  • Learn better from a gentle correction than strong punishment.

  • Not like to pick up or talk on the phone, especially if they don’t know who is calling.

  • Have little or no interest in doing extra-curricular activities, like sports or an art class and prefer quiet-play.

  • Be intuitive or seem to know what you’re thinking/read your mind.

  • Think differently than others at an early age, may use big words for their age.

  • Be sensitive to light or very slight smells.

  • Not like to be wet or sandy.

  • Ask a lot of deep, thought-provoking questions.

  • Tend to be perfectionistic.

  • Have a clever sense of humor.

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It's hard to watch your children struggle and not know what to do. What's even harder is to feel alone in this struggle. I am a highly sensitive person, am raising two highly sensitive people and have learned an angle of parenting that is uncompromised in creating a high-level understanding of your highly sensitive child.

In our session I'll give you tools to support your journey, they may be books, videos or something I offer in the work I do but truly only if it's a match.

Amy has given me the best strategies for supporting my children in a positive way while also being able to hold my boundaries as a parent. She has amazing insights and is a fabulous resource.
— -Nina C. Deephaven, MN
 
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Amy helped me understand my child and what to do to change it all for the better!

Amy Vasterling is not only a fabulous teacher, she is a generous, loving soul who wants to help people be the best they can be. Her style of teaching is differentiated than the style of most teachers. First and foremost, Amy listens to the needs of each parent and child, asking probing questions that will help get us into the real issues. She speaks not of theory but of application, examples and conversations, which allows a more engaging and deeper learning experience. The best thing about Amy is that she admits her mistakes and shares stories of failures and recoveries as well as wins and opportunities within in her own experiences. She is able to build community within the classroom by fostering and maintaining a shared sense of trust with the participants, which allows us all to develop as people, not just as parents and children. I value each time I get to spend with Amy and learn something new.

~Kerrie E. Burnsville, MN

 
 
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